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Searching for a ‘Sole’ Mate

I haven’t posted in a while. I figured I would wait until I had something to say…..

I saw this article from Focus on the Family, and thought it was pretty good.

Here is the link: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriag … _mate.aspx

and the article:

Searching for a ‘Sole’ Mate
by Gary Thomas

Our culture has embraced a rather absurd notion that there is just one person who can, in the words immortalized by Tom Cruise in Jerry Maguire, "complete us." This is a disastrous mindset with which to approach a lifelong marital decision.

The notion of a "soul mate" is actually pretty ancient. Well over two thousand years ago, the Greek philosopher Plato surmised that a perfect human being was tragically split in two, resulting in a race of creatures sentenced to spend the rest of their lives searching for that missing other who can complete them.

The real danger in this line of thinking is that many people mistake a storm of emotion as the identifying mark of their soul mate. How else can you identify "destiny"?

Such individuals marry on an infatuation binge without seriously considering character, compatibility, life goals, family desires, spiritual health, and other important concerns. Then when the music fades and the relationship requires work, one or both partners suddenly discover that they were "mistaken": this person must not be their soul mate after all! Otherwise, it wouldn’t be so much work. Next they panic. Their soul mate must still be out there!

Such people can’t get to divorce court fast enough, lest someone steal their "one true soul mate" meant only for them. When we get married for trivial reasons, we tend to seek divorce for trivial reasons.

Good and Bad Choices

In a biblical view, there is not "one right choice" for marriage, but rather good and bad choices. We are encouraged to use wisdom, not destiny, as our guide when choosing a marital partner. There is no indication that God creates "one&quo…


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Hinds feet on High Places

Have any of you ladies read this book? I have read it twice now and it teaches me something new everytime. I read it a few weeks ago and I am now beginning to see just how much the way my husband loves me is like the way Christ loves me. I love that I come away from that book with a new outlook and a refreshed soul. My soul has been starving lately and my daily bible study has been a bit dry this book has really brought new life to my studies and my soul. If you have not read this book I really think you should :)

In Joy and Love,


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