I am soon to be the SW but have come into the relationship under stressful circumstances.
I will be truthful with you – my relationship with my future husband began without his FW knowing about it. She was just recently told after 1 year of our relationship beginning.
She had been looking for someone already but had no idea that her husband had already chosen me.
Needless to say, she is very hurt and confused and feels in her words "inadequate".
We have both tried to reassure her that this was not intentional and that we want to be a family very much.
How can we comfort her and help her through this.
She and I have had very open dialogue since she found out, maybe too open, but it is too late to go back.
I want so much to be part of this family and I want to be there for her.
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